philosufi | sandy hook tragedy

The Newtown, Connecticut massacre was tragic, to say the least. If anything good is to come out of it, it should be the spark of conversation and hopefully, ACTION with regards to the United Sates gun culture and mental health awareness. 

Like millions of others around the world, I was glued to twitter and various News sources,  eagerly anticipating updates and answers. WHY did this happen? HOW it can be controlled? Frankly, massacres are becoming tragically common, especially in the United States.

The day after the shooting occurred, I was thinking about posting a typical post about how my thoughts were with the victims and that the US needed to take immediate action. In addition I was going to add the usual 'Sufya Sass" adding, "...I swear if I see any pictures using this tragedy to gain "likes" "shares" or tweets to gain followers, I will go H.A.M".  But I told myself, no we are not THAT desensitized to the world, this isn't about a sad panda in need of likes, this is real life, real lives and real tragedy. 

Yet, every time I sign into Facebook I see someone is asking for a "like" to support this victim or this message. What in the actual f*ck guys?? I understand the want to spread awareness for tragedy and that curiosity naturally draws us to finding answers but when you end a beautifully written piece with "like to show support" it draws my focus away from the message and onto a need for "instant fame"  It's f*cking stupid and does NOTHING to help ease pain for the families or the community. 

Makes me question the relevance of Facebook, does it even matter anymore when people an contribute meaningful content on sites like Twitter? UGH!! 

philosufi / boys

Never try and understand the thoughts that run through a mans mind, because if you try and you succeed you gon' damn well wish you stopped.
They're so much more complex than you'd ever expect and frankly, it's exhausting to try and think about anything OTHER than how pretty they are. I'm not in ANY way suggesting that a woman can't grasp the thoughts that run through their brains, AS IF. I'm just saying...why bother? they're all the same anyways, by the time you get to the important stuff, you've been confused by all the B.S.

beauty / coffee hair mask

What if I told you that the coffee grounds you use to make that sweet sweet energizing nectar in the morning can be used at night to make your hair fine as hellll? Would you believe me? DAMN STRAIGHT YOU WOULD! 

Coffee is a natural energizer (hence why we drink it in the morning) and if you ever feel your hair is limp, dull or not growing fast enough, you can actually apply coffee grounds to your scalp and you'll see immediate improvements. Or, if your not looking for a mess (cause, holy shit is there a mess) you can simply rinse your hair in cold down, freshly brewed drank.

Benefits: 

• FLUFFY: Coffee grounds are coarse and when you put them on your scalp it rubs away some of the build up from years of using product after product.

• GROWTH: The caffeine in the grounds draws blood to the scalp when it is applied directly on your head. Over time, your hair molecules are energized and grow faster. 

• SHINE: I don't know why, and I don' know how BUT coffee makes hair so shiny and alive...I can't even handle it. 

• COLOUR: Coffee beans are naturally strong in colour, so when you apply it toyour hair it does darken it a teeny tiny bit. So, not really a great method for blonds, but brunettes, get on it! Also, it's very beneficial for those who are starting to show greys! 

Methods: 

PASTE

• 3 Tbls of grounds 
• Your fave conditioner (Use enough to make a thick paste, use your discretion) 
• 1/2 a lemon
• 2 eggs

Mix that shit together, wrap your head in plastic wrap OR a plastic bag (please, do not cover your nose or mouth...mistakes), put a towel on your pillow, go to sleep.
Wake up, wash your hair as per usual (rub somewhat roughly so your scalp really feels it), let your hair dry, style, vacuum the HUGE mess you made with those grounds, look at your sexy hair in the mirror.

GROUNDS:

• 1 Tbls of grounds
• Conditioner 

Mix conditioner and coffee grounds together in a bowl (we're not animals) enter shower, shampoo, rinse, grab mixture and use it like you would conditioner, wash until it's all gone, look at your sexy hair in the mirror.

LIQUID:
Brew coffee like you normally would.
Once you've got that done, make yourself a nice cup and drink that while you wait for the rest of it to cool down. Once cooled, rinse your hair with the coffee and squeeze out access liquid, before wrapping your hair in plastic wrap or a plastic bag (again, not the face). Let this sit for 20 to 30 minutes while you go on Facebook and write a post about having coffee in your hair (Ex. "holy shit, I have coffee in my hair. This shit BEST work"). Rinse out your hair and BOOM you're in shine city.
Hope this is helpful!! Have a beautiful day.

philosufi / legacy

You know, they say you die twice. One time when you let out your last breath and again, a bit later on, when somebody says your name for the last time. Don't let this be you, leave your mark in this world, be happy, be brave and always be kind.

trend / leather

What's more badass then having little hearts at your elbows? Not a whole lot. Leathers always on trend and this year more than ever, you'll find little pops of it everywhere. From your pants, to your jackets and even earrings. EMBRACE IT! Feel badass! Look hot like fi-ya!

i was here

This is going to be silly, but I admire Beyonce quite a bit, she represents strong, powerful, confident women who, despite being "sexy" can be taken seriously. I think she is truly one of a kind, the perfect role model for women and girls around the world.

The reason I went on that little love-fest rant is because often I feel like I'm losing touch with who I am and who I would like to be. I want more than anything in the world to help, inspire and touch the lives of people, giving hope while bridging the divide. In this quest, I'm truly not looking for recognition, just searching for my identity in other people. 

When I think it's time to stop dreaming because, frankly, one person can not make a dent in the world, never-mind change it, I head to YouTube to watch Beyonce's performance of my favourite song, I Was Here. Immediately I begin to believe again, the words, the images and the emotion fill me with happiness. 

Take a listen and you'll see what I mean.

Have a beautiful day,

trend / spikes

Fall is my favorite season, yes because of the new heavy and warm styles that emerge but also because it's the most halal fashion season! YAH for covering up with lots of fun options!!

In addition to warm sweaters, I LOVE the accessories that come out, this year more than ever before. PEOPLE! You can use your swag to kick ass! No more feeling unsafe walking down the street at night. Can I get a "hell yah?"

Above I put up a few options of spiked accessories that I'm lusting after (The Jeffery Campbell shoes in particular) but can't afford because I am jobless and my limited income goes to my Tim Hortons addiction. For now, I'll just look at them and cry over my donuts. Fun? FUN!

No matter what is happening in the world, make sure to keep yourself happy and whole, be playful and have fun.