me, myself & i

I like to think of myself as a well-rounded person, possibly because my zodiac sign (yes I believe that bull crap) is a Libra or maybe because I don't like to take myself too seriously. Either way, I have many loves which lead to this bi-polar blog. The world, its dwellings and it's creativity inspire and interest me, SUE ME if yah dun like it, son!

I wanted to keep this blog focused on world issues BUT I love fashion, music, art and philosophy far too much to keep my options closed. I'm going to start posting whatever sparks my interest, but I can confidently say I'll "never, ever, ever" bring celebrities into this realm! This I promise me!

My Philosufi is that if you care about how you present yourself (i.e. fashion darling) it doesn't translate to you valuing the world and social issues any less. I think it's best not to judge or question the the value of a persons spirit and heart, on their love of all things happy! Your worth and contributions to greater good should not be questioned because of your style, economic level or physical appearance but only in your actions. Keep this in mind while reading (as if anyone is reading) this blog.

Enjoy??

music > everything (except food)

I've got an almost unhealthy addiction to music. It literally IS the soundtrack to my life.
If you were to play a song from 10 years ago, one that I'd heard once or twice, it would take me back to that point in time or at the very least, it would eat away at my soul until I figure out where I heard it. Music is consuming my life and...I ain't mad.

Often I find that we don't like the music other people like and that's the absolute wrong way to go about music. I don't like music because I'm told to like it, different things keep me coming back for more. 
For instance, most of Nicki Minaj's  music is actual garbage BUT I love some of it because the beats are SO SICK and the word play is creative! Same goes for Weezy F Baby. Other times, I like them because they make me want to dance, even if I don't know a single word they're saying, Pitbull, I'm looking at you...weeeeee ooooo. And in other cases, I love the meaning behind the lyrics, basically Ed Sheeran over everything. 

The point is, music is supposed to evoke emotion and if it does that for you, who are we to judge other  peoples choices? Everyone is different. 

Right now, I can't stop listening to Phil Phillips' (such a dumb name) rendition of Damien Rice's, "Volcano" and-this one pains me, Massari's "New Day". I know, judge me because I judge me. 

I leave you with this picture of Phil Phillips because he is one fine looking country boy...damn those green eyes & quirky awkward charm!

Have a beautiful day!

amanda todd

Everyone is well aware of the story of Amanda Todd, the 15 year old girl who committed suicide after being bullied for over 2 years for flashing someone over a webcam when she was in the 7th grade. The story, the video, all of it has been dissected to within an inch of its existence, and the publics out pouring of sympathy has been overwhelming. Personally I have a few issues with this entire story.


People, young adults in particular, have taken to "social activism" which I define as "liking" or "retweeting" something powerful and feigning intrest for the time period in which this issue is prevalent and then moving on without a thought to the issue. It's because society is lazy and value notoriety for doing something "good" rather than ACTUALLY benefiting the cause.
"The media" functions under a 3 week news cycle, where they will discuss something incessantly and tell you all the things you should be feeling as a result. As soon as that dries up, they move on immediately, focusing solely on the task at hand. Guaranteed this story will have dropped off the face of the mainstream media in that period of time. And while we can only hope that something good comes from this, such as an anti bullying cause etc, there really is no telling, because hardly anyone will care to look.
With the immense outpouring of greif for the loss of Amanda, especially under the umbrella of her final message, in which she simply states "I have nobody...I need someone." (still gives me goose bumps to read that) there has been a  HUGE backlash! For whatever reason, people feel the need to express their anger over the fact that Amandas story is gaining all this attention when people are committing suicide over being bullied everyday and no one knows.  (See Below) I mean, this is a VALID point, a lot of people aren't gaining nearly the same amount of attention, HOWEVER it's gotten to the point where they aren't focusing on the poor dead girl but once again notoriety. It's NOT Amanda's fault that her video had this type of reaction, and that the media put so much focus on her. Believe it or not she has no control of the situation and to use a page dedicated to her after death to spread your message is just disrespectful to her memory.
I guess what i'm trying to say is, people are greedy and needy. Even when they're trying to do good, they are only looking to please themselves. *sigh*

"RIP Amanda Todd" - Facebook 

"RIP Amanda Todd" - Facebook

"Jessie J- Who You Are" Video - Youtube

international day of the girl

   Yesterday was the first official "International Day of the Girl" focused on uniting and inspiring women and young girls to be active in their communities, schools and understand that their lives are valuable. That they hold the key to growth and empowerment for themselves, their communities and society in general.


     Introduced by the United Nations and supported by Plan Canada, this day is devoted to inspirational talks and strong "Girl power" motifs, ideally through classrooms around the world. While I support all causes aiming to change perspectives on the role of women and enlighten those who think to deny basic human rights, I can't help but be cynical and downright confused about the purpose. What IS the point in focusing an entire day to this matter when the "real" people in need of such inspiration and motivation have little to no access to the information. This entire campaign was promoted through social media, television, radio etc. and let's get real those messages are not being heard in 3rd world and  developing nations. It would have been moe effective to NOT waste money on letting us know that TODAY we could celebrate being a female and send aid, winter + school supplies to those very "change makers".

    In some aspects I see and encourage this campaign, for example, the hypersexualization of todays youth, both male and female, through "trusted" media and networking outlets. When I was 12 I could barely utter the word "sex" never mind actually HAVE it. Now, I'm not judging anyone, because we have our own paths in life and we are truly free to follow them, however I cannot get passed the realization that the media is doing nothing but edging on behaviour that's UNHEALTHY, never mind "frowned upon". We need to continue encouraging youth that they are people, not objects and it's okay to wait because believe it or not, your vagina doesn't self combust...seriously, true story. Truthfully, how can this campaign even make a dent in the minds of girls/women in North America when we have shows like "Here comes Honey BooBoo", "Toddlers in tiaras", "Jersey Shore" and musicians like Nicki Minaj and Ke$ha, telling us that inorder to be fulfilled you must focus on beauty, men and being sexed up...it's too much work! I for one, GIVE UP!
   

   Also, please let's all remember that we can't blame the media for all of this, it's parents, classmates, society...but aren't THEY all influenced by the media? Whatever, it's just an endless circle of self doubt...who know's if we'll ever get out. Probs not...



If you would like to learn more about the campaign, feel free to click the link below!!
International Day of the Girl 

philosufi / we are visitors

"we are visitors to this time, this place. We are just passing through. Our purpose here is to observe, to learn, to grow to love...and then to return home."

                 

                                             - Australian Aboriginal Proverb 

I came across this quote on my new favorite facebook Page "Universe Explorers" and I want to start living my life with this as my guide. We ALL are temporary and in the grand scheme of things, our existence is just a spot on the timeline, the most we can do it live our life to the fullest and leave this earth better then we came into it. 

Easier said than done...

philosufi / feel again.

I feel like I've been walking around in a suburban bubble, numb to everything and every feeling. I live life like I've been told it should be lived; getting an education, working a part time, wanting, buying, never actually needing anything.  I've viewed the worlds misery with only a passing thought. I'm better than this and society- one dares to hope, is better than this.

the result of an "alleged" attack

These images are beyond disturbing. I have to wonder WHY they would burn their bodies after they were already dead? Have THEY (not he, they) no respect for these human beings?